Is Political Correctness a Success Thief?

Is Political Correctness a Success Thief?

Political Correctness, in my humble opinion, is a HUGE Success thief.

Political Correctness is a majority opinion that looks first at simple things you agree with and then creates absolutes that take thought and care to disagree with.

Political Correctness feeds the SHOULD Thief.

Political Correctness is the THEY that say “you should…” just because they say you should.

Can you see how Political Correctness might limit your choices?

Political Correctness sets those bars that often stop people from thinking on their own. After all if they say, then obviously that is right.

Right?

Positive Discrimination can shine a light on something that only had a limited problem and blown it out of proportion to the size of the problem thus fulfilling the concernPolitical Correctness creates sacred cows. Common sense says certain things are true but what Political Correctness does is make shine a light and set new “rules” around a situation that may or may not have been a problem

The following examples are here for you consideration and comment:

  • The New Zealand anti-smacking law was brought in to stop deaths and violence against children. However the Ministry of Social Welfare reports that since 2006 there has been an increase in extreme violence against children. And worse several parents have been charged for smacking a child in public. We all agree smacking is bad, right. But what is the difference between beating a child and smacking their hand or bum to get their attention or make a point?
  • The New Zealand anti-smoking lobby began over 20 years ago. In the last 10 or so years it has become illegal to smoke in bars, restaurants, office buildings and many other public spaces. Are you aware of the statistics around lung cancer then and now? Could the increase be due more to the number of vehicles on the road or worse as one study I saw a few years ago said, the rate of smoking related deaths was equivalent to the rate women were wearing panyhose. How absurd?
  • Then there is the attitude around drugs to treat cancer. Why are some drugs readily acceptable while others that have only anecdotal evidence are rejected? And can anyone tell me why with over 50 years of cancer research and billions of dollars invested, cancer rates keep increasing? (As an aside, I know from personal experience that one can land up on the records as a cancer survivor if you have a non-cancerous lump removed)

And then there is this absurd example: In New Zealand we have a company who rents cheap vehicles and the PC brigade wants to put them out of business.

Why, you ask?

Because of the slogans on their vans.

Yes, many of their slogans are disgusting but…some people like them while others HATE them. Hate them to the point of criminal charges, reporting them to  Advertising Standards Authorities in Australia. In New Zealand, camping grounds are refusing them entry but…

Why did they start this campaign? Why paint their vans with “crudity”?

Because to stand out from all the other rental options, they wanted to be controversial.

Think of the marketing awareness they are getting because media reports something when ever someone “important” comments. Think of what is happening on Social media. Could you pay for that kind of awareness?

It almost reminds me of the Donald Trump campaign for President. Say the obvious. Talk about the issues in a controversial way that a lot of people agree with and the next thing you know people believe in you and start taking everything you say seriously.

Donald Trump is not anti political correctness I think that he wants to change the controllers of Political Correctness. He wants to give voice to another set of people who will reset the absolutes, the shoulds and the musts.

What can you do?

  • First be aware of what is happening.
  • Listen for the shoulds.
  • Decide if you agree and why you think the way you do.
  • Then acknowledge what is happening, accept the difference, appreciate the lesson and opinion and decide a course of action that will ensure you stay in control of your success.

Looking forward to your comments

#robertabudvietas

 

Fresh Starts

#freshstaert

You can have a fresh start every day.

Last January 2017 (in NZ) I participated in #Love Your Life in 30 Days” with Mike Dooley of TUT fame.

I never finished all 30 day but my insight from the process is to confirm how blessed and fortunate I am. This does not mean a perfect life but a life that is good and this year has some wonderful prospects. Eight months into the year, many things, both good and bad, have happened but we are still blessed, happy and relatively healthy/

What is a fresh start and how does it relate to success thieves?

When you decide that you want to do something, think something or simply act differently, you have a fresh start.

Remind yourself when you doubt or question what you are doing that you are making a fresh start because TODAY is your day.

Fresh Starts Require Fresh ThinkingBeing Aware is Key to stopping success thieves. http://www.successthieves.net

And to think fresh you need to stay aware of what you are thinking, doing and saying.

If you slip and move into regret or old patterns, then simply acknowledge that emotion and thoughts and move to the new patterns and restart the process.

The most wonderful thing about fresh starts is there is NO LIMIT on how many times you can start again.

When you notice patterns or old habits returning, accept them and then challenge them Habits like eating patterns, especially for those hoping to affect their weight (either up or down). New study habits, new relationships or new career moves or even stopping smoking, drinking or drug use only requires doing it one second/minute/hour/day at a time.

Appreciate the progress you are making and get support and help when you feel overwhelmed.

And perhaps one of the best things you can do to have a really good fresh start is limit your social media activities as well as your input from news and gossip.

Your fresh start is independent of whatever is happening in the world outside of your immediate environment.

Yes, you need to know if a storm is coming, a fire or other danger that requires you to take action to stay safe. You control your actions, your thoughts and your reactions. And that means you are able to continuously fresh start.

Fresh starts are about you. Choose what you want and go for it.

Remember that what stops you from making that fresh start often has one of two causes:

  • Lack of imagination. The reluctance to find a solution or change what is or even to ask for help.
  • Commitment to start something new. Commitment to overcome the fear of change.

Where do you want the fresh start to take you to? Once you know that you just have to figure out the route and the constraints and then adapt and adjust and KEEP MOVING.

And remember that there are many coaches, mentors and advisors out there who have overcome similar challenges by making continuous fresh starts.

Find one!

Enjoy making your fresh start and remember to ask me if you believe I can help you move forward.

To you being your glorious purposeful self

#robertabudvietas

Your Mind: Open or Closed, Mindful

#mindfulness

And what does an open mind or a closed mind look like and why does it matter? What is this concept called mindfulness and how does that relate to open or closed minds?

An Open Mind

What is an open mind? Is it a mind that will look at all possibilities or is it a mind that will consider different opinions and is willing to change if something fits the person’s purpose better.

A  Closed Mind

Is a closed mind one that receives no additional information and the person is so focused on their own purpose that there is no room for any alternative considerations?

Mindfulness

Could mindfulness really mean that the mind is so full that it has no ability to receive new information?

What is the state of mind that really matters?
  • A mind that is aware – aware of what is happening internally and externally.
  • A mind that acknowledges other people and their similarities and their differences.
  • A mind that accepts other ideas, people, opinions and thoughts. Acceptance does not mean agreement, it simply means that there is a different way of thinking but the question is how does that different way fit the purpose of the person being aware of that difference?
  • A mind that appreciates that there are other opinions and ideas. A mind that realises learning and development truly happens when difference occurs and the person can grow.
  • A mind that listens, responds and takes action that corresponds to the purpose of the person taking the action.

The saddest occurrence today is people who feel hopeless because they are unable to live their purpose and feel that they have no control of what will happen to them.

Your mind is a resource. It helps you make decisions. It helps you be aware of your needs. It helps you respond to the needs of others especially those you love, work with and care about.

Your mind needs to be fed. Fed new ideas, new thoughts and new challenges.

A mind that is never challenged stagnates and that seems to lead to some very dire conditions.

My belief: to be healthy and feel alive and useful, you need to keep your mind active and aware. You need to consider all information but not get hung up on it. You need to live your purpose.

Purposeful Living gives you control when everything else seems beyond your control. Purposeful living weighs up possibilities and makes choices based on essential needs.

So keep your mind slightly open but close it when you see that what is being offered takes you off purpose. Be aware, mindful, of what is happening but please refuse to constantly accept that other’s know what is best for you.

Stand tall and proud.

You are the perfect you. Never let anyone steal that from you.

Live, love and laugh often

http://www.successthieves.net; #mentor
Word Mentalist

 

 

Finding What Your Success is

Over the last forty years I have been studying success and all of the different meanings and measures.

Success Magazine is a wonderful resources. Many of their resources date back to the start of last century. Others are more recent but one common theme – you need to decide what success looks like for you.

Other Resources and Authors

Think and Grow Rich by Napoleon HIll

University of Success or any other book by Og Mandino

Rich Dad Poor Dad and any other material by Robert Kiyosaki and the team

A Course in Miracles

The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People by Stephen Covey

The secret is to find the book, expert, author, coach that is right for you RIGHT NOW!

Oh and let’s not forget; Who Stole My Success? by Moi. If you comment on your route to success below, I will send you a free copy of the book as a thank you.

Use Affirmations

Personal, Present, Positive ones like

  • “I am the greatest” Mohammed Ali
  • “I am an optimist. It does not seem to be much use being anything else.” Winston Churchill
  • “I am a product of my decisions” Stephen Covey
  • “I am unlimited in my wealth. All areas of my life are abundant and fulfilling.” Louise Hay
  • I am blessed with an incredible family and wonderful friends.
  • “Every decision I make is the right one for me” Louise Hay

Get a Positive reinforcement into your inbox every daywhat is success, #success http://successthieves.net/finding-what-your-success-is/

Subscribe to Hay House as well as Success Magazine.

AND NEVER let anyone chose how you feel about your success.

  • Keep your Hope alive.
  • Keep your Faith in you.
  • Keep your friends close to you.
  • Let go of the idiots who need to bring you down for them to feel good.
  • And remember

What is your success? # success http://successthieves.net/finding-what-your-success-is/GOD Created YOU and GOD does not make mistakes.

Success is yours when you believe that you are successful, amazing and awesome.

You are fulfilling a purpose so move your life forward and live the wonderous YOU.

Live your Success

I believe in you even if I don’t know you yet. I am here to support you on your journey to live your purpose and enjoy the success that comes from Purposeful Living. Like the Purposeful Living Paradigm page to continue to experience more fun, funds and fitness.

Love always

http://www.successthieves.net; #mentor
Word Mentalist

Why does a Village Matter?

Remember when we shared village principals…

  • children played on the street and everyone watched out for them?
  • the elderly were visited by their neighbours on a regular basis?
  • We were connected on an eye-ball to eye-ball level rather than electronically.
  • We noticed when someone was at a neighbour’s window.
  • We asked strangers if we could help them.
  • We smiled at everyone.
  • We talked to people in shops and had a relationship with the butcher, the baker and the pharmacist. The staff knew who we were and what we were looking for and when we would shop.

But that has changed and with the change we seem to have had an increase in isolation, depression, stress, suicide, health issues and a general breakdown of relationships.

An Alternative: Cohousing

Here is a Ted talk on cohousing 

Thriving depends on connection. You really achieve very little on your own and since we rarely pat ourselves on our own backs, who else will support us and cheer us on?

We are all here on this earth on purpose. We all belong here. We all exist to help and serve others so let’s think about how we live.

Fear dies when we stop feeling isolated. Remember how it feels to be loved. To be cared for and nurtured. We need more of that feeling not less. We need that feeling at all ages.

Success is not about having powerful jobs, lots of money and lots of power. Look at people you admire and study their careers. How many destroy what is good when they get power?

How many burn out quickly when they are on the top of their “game/career’? Alcohol, drugs grab hold because people need something to make them feel better or to calm then down.

Let’s talk more about cohabiting. Talk about community not in what can you do for me or for the less fortunate but what can we do for each other. How do we stop the insanity?

Do we tell governments, politicians and despots/dictators to take a hike and instead of waiting for someone else to fix the problem around us, we do it ourselves.

We go out and patch the road, feed the hungry and house the homeless. We acknowledge that everyone has a value and we accept and appreciate what everyone can contribute. We feed the hungry and they help us with the garden or the housework. Not charity but sharing and helping. Walking together. Reading together. Laughing together. Sharing heartaches and joys. We help others to learn by sharing our stories and experiences especially those about caring for others.

I believe that cohabiting is the future for every apartment building and gated community and suburb but …we need to change our attitude and stop fearing that we will lose something precious. There is only one thing precious.

LIFE

And life is precious because it is about love, interconnectivity, faith and expressing those things. 

What do you really want in your LIFE? What do you have in your life that you value that keeps you on living your purpose.

Let us create  villages. The concept is growing geographically but now it needs to grow emotionally and connectivity wise. It will take a change in thinking, attitude and it will push boundaries.

Let us all care more.

With love and best wishes

http://www.successthieves.net; #mentor
Word Mentalist

 

Taking Care of Others

Once upon a time, in a world not so long ago, most people actually knew their neighbours and kept tabs on each other’s children and elders. Chicken soup was delivered to those who were sick. Baking was shared with neighbours as was the produce from the garden. No one worried about sickos grabbing children off the street or putting dangerous things into halloween candy and fruit. Santa Claus delivered coal to bad children. Neighbours talked over the back fence and helped others out.Caring for others, #love, #care, http://successthieves.net/

It was a world where when disaster struck; you knew which neighbour needed to be checked on. You knew who the vulnerable were in your area. You cared about them and they cared about you. You helped others when they asked and even when they didn’t. You cared about those who were in pain or withdrawn and you respected other’s property.

Can we have a caring world today?

I believe we can but it requires some simple changes in the way we think and the way we belong to our communities.

It starts with family. It starts with parents setting guidelines for their children and living by those guidelines themselves. Children require several things that every parent can provide – love, attention, support, encouragement and protection. Yes children need food and shelter, clothing and education but if we provide for their emotional and mental needs, the material things are less important.

Either turn off the television or realistically discuss what is seen in the unreal world of television. This is also important as an adult because otherwise we think what we see on Shortland Street, Days of our Life, Lucifer and Suits are normal: the beautiful clothes, the luxury homes and apartments, the elaborate dinners and the abusive treatment of people.

Good writers, especially movie and television understand that you need conflict and resolution to prevent a story from being boring but seriously is that your reality? Most of us do have conflict at some time in our life but mostly we cope with a routine and the joys of doing things well.

And watching television makes us rue the ordinariness of our lives. (Books and movies can do the same thing). Studies and reports say that some people live their lives through reality television and soap operas.

Look around you. The people you see every day are the ones that really matter so today do the following:

  1. Smile at EVERYONE you meet
  2. Say hello and never be afraid to stop and talk for 30 seconds.
  3. Be kind to others. Open doors, help people with their load and be polite. Please and thank you still make a difference.
  4. Tell those in your family that you love them and say thank you to them every night as you hug them before going to sleep.
  5. Hugs are needed by every person. Touch people but only if they are comfortable with the touching. When we touch and hug something happens to our being.
  6. Share when you have excess of anything.
  7. Care for the neighbourhood. Never drop garbage and pick up others if possible. Watch where you pets defecate and pick it up.
  8. Plant beautiful flowers and share them with others.
  9. Grow herbs and use them liberally.
  10. Remember to teach your children that they have responsibilities and that nothing is theirs by right. Gratitude is something we need to practice every day.
  11. Take time to smell the grass, watch the sunrise and give thanks.
  12. Get your hands dirty occasionally. Physical labour never hurt anyone and it really grounds you.
  13. Feel the earth. Touch the grass, the leaves, the bark, the water, the wind and turn your face to the rain and the sun.
  14. Recycle as much as possible.
  15. Turn off the electronics.
  16. Laugh out loud often.
  17. Dance and move to music, even if only in your head
  18. Sing out loud.
  19. Spend time doing something new.
  20. Learn something new every day – experience ah-ha moments.

And when your heart is full of gratitude, love and laughter, you will care about others.: because to care about others you have to stop thinking only about yourself.

Live a purposeful life and enjoy it

http://www.successthieves.net; #mentor
Word Mentalist

 

Depression, Birthdays and Success Thieves

Birthdays are supposed to be happy days but as we get older I notice how they become more and more depressing and steal the joy of the celebration.

Yesterday I wished someone a happy birthday and they responded with birthday yes, happy no.

That led to a phone call…http://www.successthieves.net; #depression

Truth was he did not feel very happy. Everything seemed hopeless.

I remember that feeling. It was one of the reasons I wrote “Who Stole My Success?”

It happens to everyone I believe. There are moments in our life when we look back and it feels like nothing has worked out. And when we feel like that it is CRITICAL to find things to be grateful for.

It is also important to create plans, even simple actions that you will undertake today and tomorrow.

World Health Organization (WHO) added a new video: I had a black dog, his name was depression. It was eye-opening for me about depression. I know that depression is serious: 3 members of my family suffer from serious, immobilizing depression.

http://successthieves.net; #depression

I don’t claim to understand the depths of the mental health situation called depression but I do know that depression can affect everyone around the person suffering.

Is there a simple way of dealing with depression, short-term or long-term?

I’m not certain that there is but what I am certain of is that unless we connect, care and love each other depression will continue to steal all of our success.

Substance abuse, binge drinking, even excessive exercise to build endorphins are all ways that can be used to reduce symptoms of depression.

But what is this thing called depression?

There are many webpages devoted to it. There are professionals in the medical and council fields that specialise in depression.

Is this an increasing health risk?

Just because you feel sad or cry are you depressed or is it a temporary human reaction and you will get through it?

My belief, (and please let me know if you agree or not); is that if we practiced the 5 A’s (awareness, acknowledgement, acceptance, appreciation and action) more and actually loved ourselves and others so that we were better connected, then depression would no longer be the fastest growing medical condition (both diagnosed and undiagnosed) in the western world today.

http:www.successthieves.net; #hugs
Hugs all around

So today – HUGS all around. I do care.

You are AWESOME and remember you can stop your success thieves by taking control of your choices and saying NO to what is not working for you.

And remember: it is okay sometimes to feel sad, cry or just feel bummed out.

May your day be filled with little miracles and one big joy that carries you through to tomorrow when the same wish holds. Do something FUN!

Until next time

http://www.successthieves.net; #mentor
Word Mentalist

 

It Takes a Village…

It takes a village to raise a child is an African proverb but what does it mean in today’s western world?

 

Consider that instead of a village we call it a hamlet just to shift our paradigm from an African Village.

What would we find in this hamlet and why would we want it?

  1. We would find a collection of diverse people who want to live purposefully, sustainably and grow and develop individually and collectively.
  2. Each person willing to give of themselves and share the material things they bring and share their ideas and help others.
  3. Each person would understand that they have a responsibility for themselves and to the community. They keep their word and always do their best. They ask for help when they identify that they need it.
  4. A place where blame and shame have no place as everyone is perfectly who they are in the moment.
  5. Each person accepts that every other person in the hamlet needed love, caring, understanding, friendship and support and each person works to provide that to every other person in the hamlet.
  6. The hamlet provided for its own energy, food, water and basic survival needs. All income is shared as are expenses. If is sounds like a commune there are some similarities but the difference comes because each week the person in charge changes. The hamlet needs a person in charge because it must interact with the greater world and that needs someone to help make internal decisions and help all to understand each other as well as pass out superior daily hugs to everyone.
  7. Touch is important but sexuality and sex are not important.
  8. Children are treasured and encouraged but everyone is responsible for a child’s welfare. Rules exist but but they allow individuality and encourages testing limits.
  9. All ages are valued and supported
  10. Food is simple, basic natural, pure and nutritious. No preservatives, no additives and no excess but balanced for each person’s needs at the time. Cooking can be communal or individual. Storing surplus is unnecessary as everything is made to meet daily needs however freezing, canning and preserving is encouraged. The concept is to live off the land. Meals are for sharing and learning as well as eating. Snacking is discouraged. Alcohol and medicinal drugs are special needs only. Herbs and natural products are used to optimise health. Sugar is limited or eliminated.
  11. Laughter is encouraged.
  12. Everyone is acknowledged, accepted and appreciated and told every day thank you for being you.
  13. Belief in a higher being, God is an underlying principle and gratitude for the blessings is given daily.
  14. Every person is encouraged to challenge their limits and to continually learn new things. Experimentation is encouraged.
  15. Staying in the hamlet is a choice but harming the hamlet or any individual could result in asking person to leave the hamlet.
  16. Life is purposeful and full of gratitude.
  17. The past is a lesson, the future is a promise and NOW is all there really is.

What else would you like to see in your hamlet? What would it take to create this kind of hamlet? Can it be done?

To a living a purposeful paradigm

Word Mentalist

Purposeful Living Paradigm

Recently we introduced people to the Purposeful Living Paradigm. This paradigm is based on over 50 years of study, learning, experience and helping/mentoring business owners, students and colleagues.

  • We have learned from hundreds of gurus and we believe they have missed a couple of elements that we believe are key to the paradigm.
  • We believe in personal responsibility,
  • We believe in true equality (no hierarchy)
  • We believe that business can be conducted in a manner where everyone gains what they need in a timely fashion which eliminates poverty and isolation.
  • We believe that living in the paradigm means that you are connected to others but your realise that it is a privilege, not a right.
  • In the paradigm, you know the difference between responsibility to and responsibility for.
  • Awareness is a key to living in the paradigm. You acknowledge that everyone is and they are perfectly them in this moment. You accept that they have a right to their point of view, ideas and concepts and you appreciate the differences and similarities.
  • You live by a manifesto of doing your best, assuming nothing, taking nothing personally and regret nothing because you did your best and learned from the experience.

Why Purpose?

Because purpose is important.

Purpose keeps you going through tough times.

Purpose ensures that everyone benefits.

Purpose removes the need for security blankets because it recognises the continual growth and development that purposeful living people experience.

Purpose challenges assumptions and helps one acknowledge, accept and appreciate others

Purpose keeps you grateful, humble and living in the now.

Purpose helps you enjoy day to day more fun, funds (resources) and fitness (mental, physical, emotional and spiritual).

If you want to join the paradigm or learn more about living in the paradigm, join our Facebook Page and watch for more information coming shortly.

If you want your organisation or business to be more purposeful and enjoy the true benefits of purpose let us know.

Purposeful Living is FUN!

To your purpose

Word Mentalist

Feedback- Positive or Negative?

We all get feedback every day. Some of it is positive. Some of it is negative. Some is actually neither but we perceive it as one or the other. And some of it is just down-right MEAN.

Feedback comes in words, actions, lack of response, and from our own bodies. Hunger, habits, pain, bodily functions are all feedbacks of different types.

But today let’s talk about verbal feedback.

Recently I received a feedback that I am a negative person. Now I look at the comments and want to check if I really am as negative as they say? From my viewpoint all I wanted to do is understand their thinking, I was asking for information or making comments on things I could see that could be improved. But it seems that it is easier to call me negative rather that admit they don’t want to look at the situation I am seeing. This is over-simplified as there is lots of other stuff happening and that does affect the choice of words on all sides of the equation.

Business, governance and even life are about managing risk. If you bungy jump or parachute or do some other risky potentially life threatening activity, you check to see that the situation is safe. You ask about the risks and the safety provisions. You understand that there are back-ups, safety harness, secondary chutes. Often we assume that they are in place but we fail to check that they are. We believe that since we are paying for the experience, the staff and owners will ensure our safety. Have you ever really read the forms you sign before stepping out on the ledge?

Maxwell Maltz wrote a book on Psycho-cybernetics many years ago. It was written as a personal development book and the basis of the book was that feedback both positive and negative would benefit athletes, staff and even parents raising children.

Feedback – Reactions/Actions?

  1. How you give that feedback affects the person receiving that feedback but the effect depends on the relationship. A strong relationship means the feedback can be discussed and both parties learn more about themselves and the other person.
  2. Unless you understand exactly what the person giving feedback means by the feedback given, the resulting actions and emotions can be unexpected.
  3. Bullying is a form of feedback yet we often pay coaches and others to help us change a habit or improve a performance.
  4. The person receiving the feedback can accept or refuse the feedback depending on their level of respect for the person giving the feedback or their opportunity to respond to unjust feedback.
  5. Feedback happens on many levels. Touch a hot stove, a sharp knife or walk into an unknown situation. Feedback helps keep us safe and teaches us to watch out for certain situations.
  6. Movies, television, media, books and other entertainment provides us with feedback on worlds we may never encounter. Our expectations on what will happen is coloured by our experiences, knowledge and ideas.
  7. We can give permission to people to give us negative feedback – sports coaches, diet coaches and sometimes bosses. But that feedback can then carry over into other areas of our life unless the feedback is constructed to comment only on our behaviour or the viewing of the actions, not on who we are.
  8. When feedback is destructive to “who the person is”, then what tends to happen can be soul destroying and can lead to depression and other serious health states. Telling a person they are stupid or useless are examples of this kind of soul-destroying feedback.
  9. When you receive feedback that hurts you can modify it by saying yes at the moment that may be true but…and then do something that builds esteem. A gratitude exercise can help and so can a hug
  10. Remember that feedback is a loop, a loop you can change. The Universe sent this message to me today. I think the sage advise here is a great way to deal with feedback.

The next time someone upsets you, think, “Thanks for pointing out that I’ve begun depending on you. Time I lose the expectations.” 

And the next time someone doesn’t take your view into account, think, “That’s okay, I was once like that.” 

And if someone steals from you, think, “It was nothing, my supply is the Universe.” 

Or lies to you, think, “I’m sorry you feel that need.” 

Violates you, “All for my growth and glory.” 

Is rude to you, “Cheer up, dear soul, it’ll be okay.” 

Judges you, “Thanks for sharing your truth.” 

Drives by you like a bat out of hell, “Be careful, my friend. I love you.” 

And the next time someone greets you with a smile, smile back, like you’re sharing a secret. 

Headmaster,
The Universe

My feedback to you today:

You are AMAZING

Have a wonderful day

Word Mentalist